Not Sure What’s Next? These Veterans Prove SUCCESS After Service Is Possible
Here's what getting outta the military looks like
You're on terminal leave.
You're getting ready for your first taste of freedom
after what's essentially the last vestige
of indentured servitude in the civilized world.
You're running around gonna medical
and PSD to wrap up a bunch of s**t
that seems kind of semi-important.
But the Yeomen, who's the only person in the world
who can sign your checkoff list,
is on a two and a half hour lunch.
Then they send you to a TAPS class.
I remember when I went to taps,
they hand you this book from Navy blue to corporate gray,
as if the only thing that you can do
after a career of shooting bad guys in the face is put on a
suit and fill out g*****n TPS reports.
Well, I always thought there had to be more
that if you could take a 20-year-old kid,
throw 'em into combat in some far flung place in the world,
ask him to conduct diplomacy operations
with village elders while dodging VB IEDs,
and also, by the way,
stealing truck parts from the supply depot in order
to keep his Humvee running, that
that kid could probably do anything in the world.
That's why I built this podcast, tactical Wealth.
'cause it's not just an idea that the same drive,
the initiative, the ingenuity that lets you survive
and thrive in military service
can also catapult you in the civilian world.
Thousands have done it, built wildly successful civilian
careers, and I wanted to capture some of that magic.
We're officially wrapping up season one
and it's been an incredible ride.
Over the past couple of months.
I've had the privilege of sitting down
with eight extraordinary veterans, founders, operators,
innovators, each on their own unique path
beyond the military.
They opened up about transition money,
business healing, and growth.
They showed us that the mission doesn't end
when your service does.
It just evolves whether you're already out
or starting to think about what's next.
This episode is here to remind you that your best years
of service and success can still be ahead of you.
Getting outta the military is a big shift. I've been there.
You go from having structure mission team to suddenly having
to figure out what's next,
where your next paycheck comes from.
And for a lot of people that transition is hard.
But here's the truth. You have options more than you think.
Whether you wanna build a business, invest smartly,
or just get your financial house in order, you're not alone.
And there are resources out there.
But the first step is being informed.
Financial literacy isn't optional, it's a weapon.
Information isn't the new M four,
it's the AC one 30 gunship of weapons.
The most firepower you can have.
The most firepower you can bring to a problem set.
And the sooner you learn how to use it,
the better equipped you'll be to build the life
that you want after your service.
You can integrate into the community, you can be
of service in new ways,
and most importantly,
you can build wealth without losing your sense of mission.
Now, if you're sitting there wondering, yeah,
but is this possible?
How do I do it? Let me remind you that some
of the most iconic business leaders in America started
exactly where you are now in uniform.
Let's talk about a few of them.
Sam Walton, founder of Walmart
before building one
of the largest retail chains in the world.
Sam Walton was a captain in the US Army Intelligence
Corps during World War ii.
He learned logistics, structure, leadership, things
that helped him launch a single Ben Franklin variety store.
From there, he reimagined retail, focused on low prices,
and eventually grew Walmart into a global empire.
His discipline, his service mindset, they didn't disappear.
After the military, he applied it to business.
Phil Knight, co-founder of Nike, Phil Knight, served
as an officer in the US Army
and was later stationed
with the Army Reserve after his service.
Took a trip around the world where he came up with the idea
of importing high quality running shoes from Japan.
That idea turned into Nike
and what he started in the trunk
of his car became a multi-billion dollar brand
that reshaped sports culture and of course business.
How about Bob Parsons, founder of GoDaddy.
Bob served in the Marine Corps
and he fought in Vietnam
where he was wounded and earned a purple heart.
He grew up poor. He barely passed high school
and even flunked outta college.
At first, after the military, he got his degree.
He taught himself how to code.
He eventually sold his first company for millions
and he used that momentum to start GoDaddy,
the internet domain giant.
Today, he's a major philanthropist
and he uses his wealth
to support other veterans and communities.
John Paul DeJoria, co-founder of Paul Mitchell
and Patron Tequila.
Now, this is a name that sometimes people overlook,
but JP served in the US Navy.
He started off as a janitor
and a door-to-door shampoo salesman.
Eventually he scrapes together 700 bucks
and he co-founded John Paul Mitchell Systems.
Later he launched patron tequila, which many
of you probably know pretty well.
That's wild, is how much of his success was built on grit
and creativity, not on privilege.
These aren't just business leaders, they're veterans.
They've been where you've been.
They've worn the uniform, they've carried the weight,
they've faced adversity.
And then what'd they do? They built companies.
They showed us what's possible when you channel the military
mindset into entrepreneurship, discipline, execution,
resilience, and you don't have to build Walmart or Nike,
but let these stories serve as proof positive as examples
that it's possible to build
that something meaningful after your service.
And look, we don't even have to go to the Fortune 500
to find some incredible examples.
We had three of them right here on Tactical Wealth this
season at 17, Brendan Barman enlisted the US Army
as a 19 Delta Cav Scout.
In 2011, he deployed Afghanistan with the four four Calvary
and Task Force Spartan.
During that deployment,
he sustained some pretty serious injuries in combat,
which began a three year recovery
and ultimately a medical retirement.
But Brendan didn't let that be the end of his story.
Fueled by his own experience with trauma,
he became a thought leader in neurotechnology and healing.
He co-founded reboot centers in Utah,
which is a treatment facility focused on neurovascular
health for behavioral recovery.
Then he launches neuro labs where he developed Nova,
an AI powered VR platform to treat brain trauma and PTSD.
He's combined science, innovation, an empathy
to help veterans and civilians heal.
And he's built partnerships with the Department of Defense
and global mental health institutions.
He's not just building a company,
he's building a legacy of healing.
So you got four years of service, you're transitioning out
of the army, you have a traumatic brain
injury, and you got a
GED. Yep.
What happens next? Life fell apart.
I got divorced, um, couldn't get a job at McDonald's.
I wasn't a soldier anymore.
I didn't know where I rated in life.
Um, and I kept losing friends with suicide.
And so I decided the military said I would never not have
seizures, never be able to be combat deployed.
I was gonna go do that. So I I I worked real hard
and got back to a, a state
where I've had seizures since 20 12, 20 13.
Um, got my mind right, got my body right
and then I went back to contracting as kind of the,
the path back to combat.
But I got kept losing friends
and just decided there was a weakness in the medical system
that needed to be looked at.
And that's where I put my attention was, uh,
identifying a physical injury of PTSD
that no one wanted to, to see.
And that evolved into a wild journey of working
with other veteran entrepreneurs
and side projects and, Hey, I'm doing this thing.
Do you wanna come help me on it? And just trying to hustle
and steal to build a self-fund
and build a company over 10 years.
And all the, the crazy
side pass you kind of go down when you do that.
I mean, you know, as building your own business.
It's wild out here. It's the, it's the network, you know,
and, and the work you do that take you
where you're going. And
You went to school also along the way? School
Research mainly. So we,
I, I mainly got my degree doing
research in a thesis. And how
Did you do that?
Uh, I had a question and went and answered it.
So I, I wanted to know the physical injury.
We identified the blood flow injury in the brain that TBI
and PTSD leave from a neurovascular coupling standpoint.
The decoupling injury that we identified.
I helped create the protocol to restore it.
Um, we put together our findings and I published
and got a call
and they said, Hey, do you want to come defend this?
And in front of a panel, I said, yeah, I told my wife,
no way in hell I'm gonna pass and I'm a high school dropout.
And and six weeks later
we got the call that it, it went through.
I was like, oh, alright.
So I got my, my first PhD in philosophy
and I'm working on an official PhD in neuro right now.
So I mean, one of the things we do on this show is we
model pathways for other veterans
as their transitioning outta service.
You're in the military
and you're sort of the quintessential example, right?
I assume when, you know, when life fell apart outside
of like disability pay,
you didn't have a million dollars in the bank.
Right? And so we're trying to show veterans pathways
in order to level up in life.
Yeah. When they get out.
Um, for you were the most important pillars
of that transition. So
First and foremost, everybody always here is discipline.
Like you gotta have a plan
and a plan's gotta have actionable items that you can follow
through no matter how you feel, no matter what's going on.
And with that discipline has come with
that financial literacy.
So I didn't have that in the military.
I mean, I had the, you live in the barracks
before you get married and your paycheck
get paid on the first 15th.
I'm gonna take that check in half
and I have my drinking money for first weekend,
second weekend, third weekend, four week.
Like that's what I knew. Yeah. That's all I knew.
Uniform li uh, comes in, I'm gonna go buy a new uniform.
Like that's how we lived.
Um, and then I got out
and I realized like, oh, like how do I pay rent
and electric and gas?
'cause there are three different bills.
I didn't have that in the Army.
I was a child when I went into the military
and they paid all of that.
It just, I had a place to sleep.
I had internet, I had power, I had hot water.
Uncle San took care of me pretty well.
Yeah, it was a, it was a cush deal.
You had to learn all that. I think delayed.
And after what we experienced, that was the hardest kind
of hurdle initially
to even like figure out like if I had the freedom
to go be an entrepreneur or, or discover something.
'cause it's survival state.
Most guys get out and you don't have a support network.
Military. Once, once you you're out
and you're off base, that's your last time.
They keep going. The, the rotations keep happening,
the trainings keep happening and that life moves on
and you're kind of frozen in survival state.
So I, I had to learn that piece, uh, was pillar one.
And then the second pillar really came down to community.
Like we are lucky enough that what you experienced,
what I experienced in the military,
that we can forge a bond pretty quick, quick.
But those bonds and, and a lot of veterans watching this,
if you've done business with veterans, a lot of vets prey on
that to get like the quick fix of Let me get in there,
take from you as much as I can real fast, move
to the next guy and the next guy I learned like it's,
this is a slow, steady ride.
I've been at it for a long time and I would rather wait two
or three years and take things slow
for the perfect growth opportunity to happen.
Um, and so that patience that comes
to like the second pillar of community.
The third one would be patience.
Like nothing is gonna happen overnight.
Someone's gonna tell you they, they gotta wait for you
to make a million dollars in a year building a business.
I gotta wait for you to spend 4 million this
month to try to even make that happen.
Right. Right. It's not gonna happen. Buddy
Brian Ferguson, fellow Frogman,
Brian Ferguson's Foundation in leadership started early born
into a military family.
He later graduated from the US Naval Academy,
became a Navy SEAL officer, deployed
to Afghanistan in the Middle East.
He led innovation units in Under Sea Special Operations.
And he even served as a presidential appointee
in the Department of Defense.
Today. He's taken all that experience
and he's the founder of Arena Labs,
a human performance company
that helps frontline healthcare teams
optimize their stress management, their resilience
and their performance using tools inspired
by elite military training and cutting edge science.
Their product Arena.
Strive is the first digital performance
coach for clinicians.
It's already at use in major hospitals,
and it's being evaluated by the Air Force
for military medical teams.
Brian's also a faculty member at Singularity University.
He's co-founder of the Liminal Collective,
and he's an advisor to organizations focused on innovation
space and veteran transition from combat zones
to operating rooms.
Brian's mission has essentially stayed the same,
serve others at the highest level
and build systems that unlock human potential.
Because I think one of the challenges
for people when they get outta the military is like,
there's not a huge civilian market
for underwater demolition, right?
Yeah. There's nobody, like, you can't really put
that on your monster.com or LinkedIn resume,
and people are like, oh, I need
that kind of blow a boat for me.
Right? So like, um, what do you think are like the skills
that you actually pick up through military service
that are most translatable in the, in the private sector?
I, I thought a lot of coming in this
'cause it no, a passion of mine and,
and I'm, I'm grateful for what you're doing here is like
how, you know, I've, I've intermittently over the last nine
years done a lot of work with people transitioning out.
I've either special operations
or other parts of service and I struggle.
I, I like what is the meta lesson?
And I think number one, um, we were talking
before the show, I think especially in special operations,
people are entrepreneurs at heart.
But that doesn't mean you should start a company.
Um, and I think most people in the military are hungry
to have a high sense of agency
and impact, which is usually not gonna come in a when you're
a cog in a large, large organization.
So the question is, where do you fit?
Um, I think for me, the, the probably the meta lesson
that I take away of those leaders, number one, it's, I mean,
the very cliche, but it's about people.
And then how do you think about for yourself the,
the threads that allow you
to feel like you're still serving something
bigger in creating.
And, and I think that again is like, that's, it's a,
it's a trite statement, but I, what,
where I see people struggle is we take
for granted when you're in military service,
you're always serving.
Like that's the subtext of everything.
And I think when you leave and just dive into something in
the private sector that's strictly about revenue
or profit, it just sucks the soul a little bit.
So you have to start with like, how am I gonna pull
that threat of service
and then like, what's the risk calculus I'm
willing to take in this next season?
And that's totally different for everyone.
Yeah. I I, I think
that part when you at least consider the culture
of entrepreneurship, and I think one of the things, one
of the reasons we wanted to have this conversation was
to really like, tease out this idea of like, okay,
you come outta service, uh, and you want to build a company.
Mm-hmm. Like, who, who is that appropriate for?
Who is it not? Uh, if you do decide to do it,
what are the things you should be thinking about?
Um, so let's, let's talk about that risk calculus
and that risk profile.
Like, it's, it's different if you serve,
if you serve 20 years, you're used to a regular paycheck,
maybe you have your TSP Yeah.
But you have like a family to support. Yeah.
Like the slope for entrepreneurship is steeper, right?
Yeah. Yep. Yeah, I mean, to hit that quickly, um,
what I do, you know, some of the work I've done in, in
around this question is I think at a basic level, um,
someone in going into special operations
has a pretty high individual risk calculus to say, I'm, I'm,
you know, I'm betting on myself when it, you know,
if you go 20 years and you come out
and you've got three kids and, um, you're,
you're the sole income earner, it's a lot harder to have
that same approach.
However, if you shift your risk calculus to zero, I think
that's where people end up really
yearning for something more.
Um, and that's the work to say, where on
that spectrum am I gonna shift?
Um, I will say, I mean, starting a company,
I advise most people against that
because it is, it is insanely all consuming
and difficult as you know.
Um, however, you know, what I see now is like the,
the people who've come out, um,
and in some way the, I think kaj the thing that I often,
the, the, the starting place, I mentioned service earlier,
but when you're in the military, especially for,
for 20 years, like it's imp you sort of forget you are,
your time is someone else's at the end of the day.
And so it's the reason people squabble over, you know,
a per diem trip or dive pay
because it really is like, you can't,
you don't have any other way to make money.
And so that becomes a point of contention when you get out
of the military, your time is now wholly yours.
And so I think the way to start is to say, you know,
I call it this sort of portfolio lifestyle.
When you're getting back up that learning curve
to say, where do I wanna sit?
The more you can control your own time
and allocate it carefully to, to, you know, being
around new mentors, new people, new challenges,
it helps make that, that clear.
Now, I know that's challenging if you've been in
for 20 years, but I, I think there are still more creative
ways to do it than to say, I'm gonna take
a full-time paycheck and give my time again.
But now it's gonna be a big company
where there is not that threat of service.
And I think that's where you start
to see real tension for people.
Yeah. I mean, look, I,
I felt this tension myself when I got off active duty.
I said, never again will I be in a position
where somebody can tell me like, you have to do this
and you have to go mm-hmm.
There, um, and you have zero choice
or else they'll throw you a jail, right?
Mm-hmm. And then somebody reminded me like, well,
that's okay because outside of the military,
indentured servitude doesn't really exist.
So you're, you're good. You're, you're absolutely good.
But I do think this is an important principle.
One of the things that you talk about that I think is
so profound is this idea
that you can be an entrepreneur without
starting your own company.
Yeah. Explain that to people so they understand.
Yeah. I mean, there's this, some
of these words feel a little corny,
but the idea of intrapreneur is one that comes up a lot.
And, you know, the, the question is, you know,
if you exist in a large, a large business
or some sort of a large infrastructure, that's a, a,
a big set of companies where you have a lot of autonomy
and creativity to either focus on leadership
or mentorship that allows people
to feel like they're building and creating.
Um, the classic definition
of entrepreneurship is starting
something solely on your own.
Now that might be, if you're, you're gonna go out
and just, you know, a lot of people get out
and want to be sort of advisors
or coaches, um, I think that always hits its own limit
where you start to realize you're exchanging time for money,
and that becomes its own indentured servitude.
I went through that when we first started arena.
We were a services business, like a consultancy.
I was on the road all the time.
I was in hospitals all the time,
and it was, it was grinding me.
Um, but the classic, you know,
I think the definition people sort
of revere is I'm gonna go out.
I've got a big idea. I'm gonna start a company.
I'm gonna raise a ton of money. I, with
that comes insane responsibility that, you know,
inside the military, even on the hardest day,
you always know you've got a huge
institution behind you to back you up.
Whether that's, you know, literally in kind
of being rescued in a bad situation tactically,
or just in, you know,
a legal dispute when you're building something on your own.
You know, one of my, the, the sort
of early hires in our company,
Glenn Trachtenberg uses this great analogy, which she says,
you know, when you're an entrepreneur,
in some ways you're glamping.
Right? Or you're in a big company
and glamping is, Hey, like, you're trying this thing.
And if it doesn't work out, I'm gonna go back
inside the main lodge and I'm gonna, you know, I've,
I've got nice toilets
and infrastructure inside warm showers.
Building something from scratch is like being in
the Alaskan outback. Yeah, you're
In the hinterland. Yeah. And
If you don't figure it out, it is existential,
like the company goes away.
And if, if you've bet all, if you put all your chips on
that, that means you're back to square one.
And that is a very high risk calculus.
Um, so, so that's where, like,
there's a whole longer conversation there,
but I think it's sometimes it's okay to go out glamping.
If you've earned it for 20 years in the military
and you want to have some of those creature comforts
for your family, that's totally reasonable.
Rich Devinney Rich served over 20 years
as a Navy SEAL officer,
completing more than a dozen deployments around the world,
including to Iraq and Afghanistan.
He held leadership roles
inside the Navy's most elite SEAL team.
But Rich's most powerful contribution came when he was
tasked with revamping our seal
selection and training process.
He there realized that the keys
to elite performance were not just skill, it was attributes,
adaptability, resilience, drive, team ability,
the intangibles.
He helped launch Seals First Mind Gym
where they trained mental performance and stress resilience.
This was a revolutionary approach in special operations.
Now, after retiring from the military, rich took
that knowledge and he built a company around it.
He founded the Attributes Inc.
Which is a consultancy that helps elite teams,
fortune five hundreds.
Pro athletes unlock peak human performance.
Not by focusing on what you do,
but by focusing on who you are.
He's now the bestselling author of two books,
the Attributes, which lays out 25 internal drivers
of optimal performance
and masters of Uncertainty, a playbook for turning stress
and chaos into clarity and action.
Rich teaches leaders how
to thrive in unpredictable high stakes environment.
And he's living proof that leadership forged in the SEAL
teams can not only survive but thrive in the civilian world.
Right? But what did you find to be
the most consistent attributes?
And I think this ultimately will transition to
how people transition in civilian life.
What did you find to be the most important attributes
in terms of people's success in making it through training?
I only know the dumbest one,
and you could like disprove me of this myth.
Like, what I seem to know is that water polo players
and wrestlers have a, a higher percentage
of completion of training.
Like, right, right. That is, that, is that seal mythology
Actually rowers too. Crew. Uh,
And Rowers. And rowers, yeah.
Yeah. Amazing. So that's true.
Actually I didn't, that's not seal urban mythology. It's
Not, yeah, it's not, it's not, um,
urban legend. Yeah. So,
And why is that?
Oh gosh. I mean, you know,
how many, how much time do we have here?
I mean there's, okay, so, so there's a couple things here,
but I think, I think one of the, let's,
let's talk first about attributes
and then we can talk about uncertainty.
'cause I think a lot of it has to do with uncertainty, um,
as much as it does with attributes.
First of all, when we talk about attributes, the attributes
that are required to be a, a great seal
or on a SEAL team are gonna look different than the
attributes required to be a great teacher or surgeon
or salesperson.
Okay? So, so the, the, the groups, every group,
every organization, every team has, its, its unique set.
Um, when it comes however to, uh, making it
through seal training
or even just military service, I think one
of the most important attributes
for anybody coming outta the military is courage.
And that is a distinct attribute. Okay?
And the reason is because courage is, is it, it has nothing
to do with what you've done for a living.
Okay? Courage is literally this ability
to step into our fear.
When we start to feel that fear arise, our, our,
our autonomic arousal, our amygdala, uh,
amygdala gets tickled.
And we are presented two choices. We know those choices.
They're fight or, or flight, okay?
What neuroscience has discovered is whichever we choose is a
specific switch in the brain.
Okay? So if we choose to flee,
that's one switch that gets clicked.
If we choose to fight, IE step into our fear
a switch, uh, that's another switch.
And that's known as the courage switch. Okay?
And we by the way, get a dopamine reward when we do that.
As soon as we hit that switch,
we get a dopamine reward for doing that.
Okay? Now, all this to say that, um, that
that fear response, well first of all, that proves
to us neurologically what we've all known philosophically,
which is you cannot have courage in the absence of fear.
You must have fear present to access that courage switch.
That's one. The next thing we have
to understand is fear is subjective to the human.
Okay? Um, it takes different levels to tickle that amygdala.
You could have a group of navy seals in a gunfight
with Al-Qaeda in Afghanistan, who are literally in
that moment feeling less fear than the 8-year-old.
You just asked to step in front
of the classroom and introduce themselves.
Okay? Um, so you can be a generally anxious person, but
because every day,
all day you're stepping into your discomfort,
you're stepping into your stuff,
your courage level is very high.
Okay? You could be someone who does crazy stuff, okay?
I, you, I think you've seen the, the documentary, uh,
free solo about Alex Arnold.
Yeah. I mean, it's insane.
When you watch this guy, he climbs 3000. It's
Petrifying to even watch Yeah.
When you get sweaty palms watching no ropes climbing,
you know, but they looked at his brain in this,
in this documentary, I dunno if you remember,
but they, they recognize
that his amygdala doesn't get
tickled the same way other people.
It takes a while for that to happen, right?
Which means he's not necessarily accessing his card
switch as often.
Now, again, I'm not saying Alex is not courageous,
but I'm saying that, that we as human beings under need
to understand that we, we, we are very
and can be very courageous people.
All this to say, our transition,
whatever transition we're making from one mountaintop
to the next hill, okay?
Courage is a huge piece of that.
And we have to understand as military people,
that we have already exercised this, this attribute a lot,
and we are good at it.
And if I were re, if I were to have anybody rec
or recommend anybody lean
on anything, lean on their courage.
Because that means you are good
at stepping into your discomfort.
It's going to be uncomfortable, it's gonna be,
you're gonna feel that fear, but we can do it.
And that the confidence alone in any military, uh,
member making a transition should be, you know
what I do courage pretty well. This is what I'm gonna do.
Yeah. Yeah. So let's talk about that transition.
How it was personally going from that military mountaintop
to the private sector.
Um, there's gonna be fear, there's unknown,
there's uncertainty.
Yeah. Um, how did you deal with that?
Um, and what was your sort of strategy after a,
after an extraordinary career?
So, so, uh, lemme just talk about the neurology
of uncertainty and dealing with it,
which gets in the second book.
Um, when we are, um, when our autonomic arousal goes up,
our immediately tickled, um,
we are feeling uncertain, we're feeling anxious.
Um, we have to understand that there's, it's
because our brain is constantly trying to make sense
of our environment, okay?
And in doing so, it's trying to distinguish
or determine three important factors.
Those factors are duration, how long this is gonna last,
pathway, what's my route in, out,
or through, um, and then outcome.
What's, what's gonna be the end state of this?
If we are an absence of one
or more of those three things, um, we start
to feel uncertainty, challenge and stress.
Our amygdala gets tickled. All that stuff starts to happen.
Give you an example, okay?
Uh, illness, you and I get strep throats, okay?
Strep throat is a known disease
or a known a known illness, okay?
We know that people get better from strep throat
and there's a known antibiotic for strep throat.
So if we get strep throat, we are an absence
of only duration.
'cause in other words, we, we know the,
we know the pathway antibiotic,
we know the outcome, we're gonna get better.
You might react to the
antibiotics a little bit different than I do.
It might take me three days. It might take you one day.
So duration is the only unknown there.
Our uncertainty, stress,
anxiety level is moderate or, or mild.
Now, maybe we get the flu, okay?
Flu, also known, uh, illness.
Most people, at least in in today's environment,
don't die from the flu.
Okay? But there's no real thing you can take for the flu.
There's no medicine for the flu.
There's, there's techniques people say,
but there's no real known thing.
And we don't know how long typically it
takes for someone to get through their surgery.
So we're an absence of duration
and pathway, but we know the outcome.
Our anxiety, our stress, our uncertainty level is moderate.
Now, say there's a disease that shows up
and, um, no one's seen it before.
Some people are dying from it.
Some people are not dying from it.
There's no vaccine, there's no cure right now.
Um, and the, and we
don't know how long we're gonna be in this thing.
This might sound very familiar 'cause this was 2020, right?
You know, and in those case, in that case,
we were in absence of duration, pathway
and outcome, the whole thing.
So all this to say that the, the, the technique
that can be used in any environment of uncertainty,
challenger stress, really anywhere is
what I call moving horizons.
All moving horizons is, is you're looking at your situation.
You ask yourself, what do I know? What kind of control?
You pick something and you move to that.
And in doing so, you've created certainty
by creating your own DPO your your
own duration pathway outcome.
Uh, so a real, a real simple example
that you will resonate with is in buds.
Um, you spend hundreds of hours running around
with those Dan boats on your head, okay?
Um, and I remember being, uh,
during hell week, it was like three in the morning.
We're on the beach running with these things.
And you know, there's a, you know, there's sandburn.
So you're next to a sandburn, and I'm miserable.
And I say to myself, you know what?
I'm just gonna focus on getting the end of this sandburn.
What I realized later on that I did was I,
I picked a horizon
and created my own DPO duration from now into end
of Sandburn pathway from here to end
of Sandburn outcome, end of sandburn.
And in doing so, I created a dopamine.
Uh, I, I gave myself dopamine to get to the, to get
to the end of the goal, and then gave a do got a dopamine
reward at the end that allowed me at the end of that
to come back out, ask the question,
pick another horizon and move to that.
And so all this to say is first, every single one of us
as human beings has done this before.
You can think of times we've done this.
It's basically the neurological equivalent
of eating the elephant one bite at a time.
The other thing is that we can apply this to any aspect
of life, but especially in these moments of transition,
the most important thing we have
to remember when we're transitioning,
where we're diving off our mountaintop into the new valley,
is that we have to a, have an objective.
We can talk about the overall objective that,
that new mountaintop, but then we have
to chunk our environment.
We have to start picking horizons
and moving through those horizons.
What do I know? What can I control? Do that.
Once you do that, what do I know what to control? Do that.
So I would say the best,
most important tool is moving horizons in a transition.
Yeah. Out outstanding. So you're coming outta service.
It doesn't matter whether you did a four year enlistment
or whether you did 24 years of service.
Um, you have to have a dive plan.
You're gonna, you know, plan your dive and dive your plan.
Yep. But no dive plan, uh, goes from entering the water
to hitting the ship, right?
You're gonna have way points along the line Yeah.
And, and along the way.
And you're gonna hit, and you're gonna hit those small,
achievable goals, right?
That cumulatively will get you over
that next horizon. Yeah, fascinating.
And, and, and manipulating your neurology, right?
You're manipulating your dopamine reward system in a way
that allows you to continue to stay motivated and not quit.
Anytime we quit anything, it's
because we've run out of dopamine.
And so as we, as we pick out these horizons, they could be,
they could be, I'm gonna take 10 breaths.
They could be, I'm gonna wait till the next meal.
They could be, I'm gonna make this phone call.
But those horizons are managed
subjectively by the individual.
So you're managing that, that motivation system
or dopamine system in a way that that moves you
through effectively and efficiently. So
Whether it's building a billion dollar business like Sam
Walton or Bob Parsons, pioneering neurotech like Dr.
Brendan Barrowman, rethinking healthcare performance,
like my friend Brian Ferguson,
or reshaping leadership like Rich Devinney.
The point is, it's possible veterans are builders,
operators, problem solvers.
Whether you're transitioning out right now
or 10 years down the line, it's never too late
to start to look.
If you're listening to this
and you're getting ready to transition outta the military,
or you're already out and you're feeling
stuck at your current state in life, here's a quick roadmap.
One, get clear on your mission. What fires you up?
What problem do you wanna solve? Two, get educated.
Financial literacy, business basics, funding.
There's no shortcuts here. You gotta learn the game.
Three, build your network. Community is everything.
Talk to other vets, talk to entrepreneurs and ask questions.
Four, start small. Rightsize this.
You don't need a massive business on day one.
Five, validate your idea.
Take a step, stay disciplined.
You already know how to show up.
Apply that same discipline here.
And six, keep serving, whether it's customers,
clients, or your own team.
Build something that serves something greater than yourself.
Your transition isn't the end,
it's the beginning of a new mission.
At Tactical Wealth. Our mission's simple
help you build wealth with purpose, whether that's
through business investing
or creating a legacy for your family.
We're here for it. Season one might be wrapping up,
but we're just getting started.
We got big things ahead,
and I can't wait to share more with you soon.
Until then, stay sharp, stay driven.
And remember, wealth isn't just about money.
It's about freedom, it's about
impact, and it's about mission.
See you soon. Hey, thanks again
for locking in with us today.
I hope this episode stimulated the old brain housing unit.
Step one to becoming richer is becoming smarter,
and I hope some of the lessons
and ideas from today have sharpened your knife.
As always, I hope you're taking notes,
but more importantly, that you're taking action.
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